3 Steps to Help Purge the Urge

When a Dance is More than a Dance If you’ve been going through our video course, you already know that mind doesn’t like to change. Even though I’ve been a sexual addiction counselor for 20 years helping guys like you break free of their sexual compulsive behaviors, I’m still a man and I still get occasional urges that could lead …

The Girl in the Red Dress

(or Catching Your Addiction Before It Bites You in the Ass) I’ve had a lot of clients ask me, “How do you catch your addiction when it comes up?  Then what do you do about it?” Because dialoguing is a key component of the Neulia program, I’m also often asked questions such as: “How do you teach yourself to dialogue?  …

How to Know if You’re a Sex or Porn Addict

One of the hardest things to do is realize that you may be a porn addict. Unlike alcoholism or drug abuse, porn doesn’t come with blatant physical consequences, and isn’t usually dangerous for other people. For many people, therefore, porn addiction feels like something physiologists have made up. The problem is, it isn’t made up, and does have some serious …

Dealing with Sex Addiction

Dealing with sex addiction is very difficult. Over the last 200 years sex has become a public taboo, an unspeakable subject. So how can someone who is addicted to sex overcome that stigma to get the help they need? In this article we’ll talk about how to know if you’re a sex addict, and how you can go about getting …

Helping a Spouse Who Suffers from Porn Addiction

Porn addiction can cause major problems in your spouse’s life. These problems can range from problems focusing on real world events, to failure to perform in the bedroom. Are there other signs? And if you do think your spouse is suffering from porn addiction, what can you do to help? In this article we’ll take a look at those signs …

3 Signs Your Spouse Suffers From Sex Addiction

If you think about it there is a lot that can go wrong in a marriage. Divorce rates are at the highest point they’ve ever been. Something that people don’t often realize is that sex addiction can cause marital distress, and eventually divorce, if it isn’t treated. Here are three ways to find out if your spouse is addicted to …

Can “Looking” be a Symptom of Sex Addiction?

Can “looking” or ogling be a symptom of your sex addiction? Does looking trigger you into deep fantasy leading to compulsive sexual thoughts that won’t stop until you act out? Often times “ogling” is a step in the wrong direction for sex addicts leading to other unhealthy sexual behavior. It hurts spouses too – the web is chock full of …