How to Know if You’re a Sex or Porn Addict

One of the hardest things to do is realize that you may be a porn addict. Unlike alcoholism or drug…

Dealing with Sex Addiction

Dealing with sex addiction is very difficult. Over the last 200 years sex has become a public taboo, an unspeakable…

Helping a Spouse Who Suffers from Porn Addiction

Porn addiction can cause major problems in your spouse’s life. These problems can range from problems focusing on real world…

3 Signs Your Spouse Suffers From Sex Addiction

If you think about it there is a lot that can go wrong in a marriage. Divorce rates are at…

The Girl in the Red Dress

(or Catching Your Addiction Before It Bites You in the Ass) I’ve had a lot of clients ask me, “How…

3 Steps to Help Purge the Urge

When a Dance is More than a Dance If you’ve been going through our video course, you already know that…

Recovery Multiplier

The military has a term called “Force Multiplier” which, according to the Department of Defense, is defined as “A capability…

Naming Your Addict

One of the most important realizations you can come to on your journey towards recovery is that your addict is…

Talking To Yourself Is Totally Sane

Naming your addict is important in helping you firmly establish that your addict self and your adult self are two…

What Brought You Here?

Before any recovery can begin, you must first ask yourself this hard question: “What brought me here?” Like many other…

Become Your Own Investigator

You may not realize it yet, but you have an internal story you have been telling yourself. There is a…

“The Blonde in the Beemer” — Moments When You Feel Totally Out Of Control

We want to be totally open with you here at Neulia. So in an effort to show you that you're…

How To Have A Dialogue With Your Addict Self

What might it feel like when you actually begin having a real dialogue with your addict self? One of our…

Lies: The Power of Stories

Let face it, the addict self lies to you. In an earlier blog, we shared George's story about the blonde…

What If My Addict Is Tougher Than I Thought?

In a previous blog, we wrote about the importance of finding your own story, and getting to the roots of…

Shame and What It Can Teach You

Many addicts, no matter their struggles, are already very familiar with feelings of shame. Shame often goes hand in hand…

What Is Euphoric Recall?

Your mind can be a powerful and sometimes destructive force. It can lie, it can rationalize bad behavior, and often…

Rewriting Your Personal Story

We’ve written about the importance of really sitting down and taking the time to have an actual dialog with your…

What if I Can’t Find My Own Story?

Recovery is a process, not a singular event. In these blog posts we’ve been writing about how your mind, and…

3 Steps to Take to Outsmart Your Triggers

One of the most powerful tools you can use on your road to recovery from porn addiction is the ability…